The Sunday night before heading back to work I felt nervous and doomed. I knew it would be a difficult Monday. Not only would it be difficult to wake up, but I will have to deal with 18 students who have had little structure to their lives for the past 9 days. I walked into the classroom with a calm and easy attitude. I know my students could sense calm and played off of it very well. THEN recess came. I am talking with a coworker about the potential layoffs and we hear a crowd of students chanting, fight, fight! In a split second I am across the playground on the basketball courts. As furious as I am, I calmly walk the two boys to the office. That easy attitude has now been replaced with disciplinarian attitude.
Tuesday comes and BEFORE recess, one of the boys starts fighting with another student! Unbelievable. I laugh to myself, "And I thought this week was going to be difficult, ha ha." I talk with my principals about this student who has been fighting. We come to the agreement that he is having a hard time adjusting back to the school routines and rules. This is a reflection on the lack of structure in that household.
Luckily, I scheduled a dentist appointment Thursday morning and a training in the afternoon. Mini vacay so soon after spring break? Much needed.
Friday, I made an effort to keep the calm attitude throughout the day UNTIL I handed out rewards for the groups that earned the most points. Well, since my class loves rewards they try very hard to get points. The totals were as follows: 22-25-25-23-23. Since they were close, I decided to give each group a prize. The groups with 25 points were receiving a Hershey's bar and all other groups were receiving a Rice Krispy Treat. Let me tell you, I had three students tell me they didn't want the Rice Krispy Treat, they want the Hershey's bar. I looked at them and said, "If you do not want to prize I am giving you, you can sit down." In complete shock, I watched my students stand there with their hands still out and pointing to the Hershey's bar.
I have never met such picky, spoiled, ungrateful less fortunate kids in my life!
Yes, that is how my week ended. I will never forget those three students.